Category: Dating and Relationships
you know - I had become involved with a girl, and thought she was the only one - she isn't interested in me.
Things remind me of her, everytime I see cards on the stall in shops, or when its a birthday, valentimes day, they all remind me of her.
I hope that somewhere out there, there is someone?
tththere is smiles. good luck.
I don't think the zone is the place to look, but good luck anyway.
I didn't take his post to be looking, or I'd be moving it over to the singles board. I think he's just expressing the frustration of not having someone, and the hope that someone is out there.
Matthew, (I gather that's your real name as well), I know it's discouraging. Either when you're interested in someone and they don't return that interest, or after you've been in a relationship with someone, and you break up. Everything, from the big to the littlest things, remind you of that person, and it's almost a constant and sometimes overwhelming sadness for awhile. And it is easy to lose hope that the right person is out there. But, I guess all a person can do is hope. And, often it is true that you will find love when you're not looking for it. Being patient sucks, but I guess it's the only way.
I've definitely been in the situation of being interested in someone who wasn't interested in me in return. What can sometimes make it even worse is when the person knows you're interested, doesn't have the slightest interest in you, but uses your interest to monipulate you. Of course, someone who does that is someone that's just plain not worth having anyway.
I agree with post four, it always comes when your not looking for it. I've found some very good girls when looking, and had some very good relationships with them. But the one I'm in now, I wasn't looking for at all, and it is amazing.
I know its hard to be interested in someone who isn't interested in you, I've been there. the best thing to do is to sit back and relax. Soon, what you thought was golden, will tarnish, and you'll realize she wasn't as good as you thought. Its natural. Don't sweat it too much.
exactly cody.
thanks for all your coments.
You are right in what you say.
Some days I just think about her all the time, but i'll take that advice, and take my mind off her, and on to something else.
Thanks again
awwww. matt you'll find her some day. it always comes when you least expect it. when your not looking and completely focused on something. else i wish the best for you.
Let me tell ya. When I first met the woman I'm engaged to now, I had no intention of being in a relationship with her, and she had no intention of being in one with me. When we were just friends, for a while at least, we both thought we were going to be with other people. At some point, things changed and love snuk up on us when we least expected it. So yeah, perhaps one thing to do is to just make a lot of female friends with no intention of dating any of them, just talk and go out and have a good time and who knows what'll catch you unaware one of these days.
yeh yeh. don't expect. be yourself. don't imagine more on someone. mainly girls will become meaner and meaner if they are coming to know that we're having a crush on them. or, they will make a fuzz. lol.
if the right time comes, everything will happen as it's own.
Raaj
Hmm... Matthew the more you dwell on this girl your trying to move on from the more ghost will hunt you from the relationship that wantw was. Now I know what I said was confusing but focus your thoughts some where else and find a group of friends to help you through these times. Man does this topic bring back memories when I was younger.
all good advice for him.
Awww, Matthew, you just gotta stay busy. Even if you aren't hanging out with girls, just hang out with people in general. Read a really intriguing book or watch some good movies. Keep your mind off of it as much as you can, but also don't keep emotions bottled up inside you because when they finally come out, it can get nasty. That can turn into bad relationships or poor choice making. Keep your head up, your friends close, and your spirits as high as you can manage. Remember it will get better.